If the dating world is leaving you behind, feeling alone and hopeless, understanding these 7 reasons men have trouble finding women to date will get you back in the romance department in no time. Fear of rejection is the greatest inhibitor to finding a woman to date.

Before looking at what is wrong, let’s first look at what is right.

Humans weren’t meant to be alone and there is a relationship waiting for you right at this moment.

Not being able to find a date isn’t about a problem with you, it is a problem with how you are presenting yourself to the dating world.

If you are feeling like a loser, doing the same routines every day and spending time with the same friends, you are not alone.

Many men find themselves going to work, coming home, having a beer, watching TV and throwing on a little porn & exercising their left or right hand and getting up the next morning to do it all over again. How can love find you when you aren’t making yourself available to a potential mate?

1. They Spend Free Time At Home

If you think like a loser you will think of yourself as a loser & consequently you will behave like a loser.

Love certainly cannot find you when you are behind closed doors each and every day. The time is now to make yourself available to a potential partner, and you will need to step outside of your home to do so.

Hit the best dance clubs, busy coffee shops and all venues that are dominated by women, and events that are dominated by women.

2. They Have No Hobbies

If your free time is spent alone, watching TV, love can never find you. Get involved in outside activities that will help you meet women with similar interests, which is a great starting point for a new relationship.

Find hobbies that women like and gravitate to those – rollerblakding yoga bootcamp – Hot yoga – nothing better than seeing a tightie is dripping wet after an hour of hot yoga. You’ll fee like dumping a load of hot yogurt.

3. They Lack Self Confidence

If you lack self confidence you need to try the Dr’s notch the belt technique – walk into a club ask 40 women to go home and have sex with you you’lll likely get 35 slapping you telling you to fuck off – but law of averages says that at least one will go home with you and if you’re lucky – two

Perhaps you are social and are out in the world quite often, but you cannot find the courage to start conversation with a woman you are attracted to. You will have to work on building your confidence once more and to not take rejection personally. It takes many attempts before finding someone you are compatible with.

4. They Hang Out With The Same Friends

Though it is great to have friends, if you all do the same activities and routines every weekend, you aren’t making yourself accessible to a potential partner. Hang out with guy friends who have the technique already – who are eye candy to girls. You’ll be lucky to get their leftovers.

5. They Work Too Much

Though everyone must earn a living, you need to make sure you set time aside to have a social life. It isn’t healthy, mentally or physically, to work around the clock. Take time out for yourself and leave the work alone. Nothing wrong with working hard & making a living but all work & no play doesn’t leave with you with a hardon.

6. They Spend Social Time With Friends Who Already Have Relationships

Of course you should not avoid good friends who have found love, but if all of your free time is spent with couples or a friend who is no longer in the dating scene, it can be hard to meet someone new. Spend time with all types of friends – those with relationships and those who are single.

That’s okay – but make sure you ask your friends who are in a relationship to set you up with single women from their circle of work, volunteering, the gym, wherever.

7. They Think Friends Cannot Become Lovers

Sometimes love is right in front of a man’s eyes, yet he doesn’t see it. The best relationships long-term are those where a couple consider themselves friends. Some men focus on the initial physical attraction, but are left wanting more than that, so they feel unfulfilled. Consider dating someone you consider a friend instead of pursuing a stranger.