Is Your Body Language Killing Your Dating Potential?
Biggest Mistakes Revealed!
Getting the attention of a beautiful woman is a challenging task in itself but achieving dating success is even more complicated.
Sometimes, you will be committing involuntary mistakes that will diminish your chances of success by showing just how nervous you really are.
Body language is an important part of successful dating and one of the advanced flirting techniques. Many people behave in a wrong way, which ultimately ruins a date.
You are probably familiar with the situation; you are saying one thing but your body is making the exact opposite statement.
Body Language and Dating: Why is It Important?
She will be checking your body out before you have even opened your mouth to say “hello.”
Women are very good at reading the subtle signs. She will instantly know if you are comfortable and if you are generally a confident or a truly introverted and shy person. Controlling your body language is difficult and you will often be providing the wrong type of information.
You are doing the same thing, whenever you meet a woman. You examine her appearance, the way she holds her drink, the way she smiles and runs her fingers through her hair. All of these seemingly irrelevant actions help you form an opinion about her. Well, she does the exact same thing. She will decide whether she wants to meet you again on the basis of the signal you are sending her way.
Just don’t come off as a dog in heat!
Body Language Mistakes: The Big No-Nos
Now that you know how important body language is in the realm of dating, you are probably wondering about the mistakes you are making.
Is your body language killing your dating potential? If you have experienced a number of failures, the answer to the previous question is most probably “yes.”
The most common mistake and the one that shows that you are not good at this game is looking at anything in the room other than her face.
Establishing eye contact can be a frightening task and you would rather inspect the floor pattern than look at her face and show her how embarrassed you really are.
You think that this is smart but it kills your dating appeal.
On the other hand, some men lean too close to a woman, when talking to her. This is supposed to speak of intimacy and the desire to become ‘closer.’ She, however, will be seeing it as intrusion. You will be getting into her personal space and she will be uncomfortable with this type of behavior.
List of Body Language Signs
Holding things in front of your body or crossing your arms indicates a degree of introversion or even passive aggression that she will be unhappy with.
Checking the time may be seen as an indication that you are bored and that you want the date to end.
Body language is a reflection of your inner cosmos. All of the insecurities will appear on the surface, even if you are trying hard to hide those.
The way you speak, the way you lean towards or away from her, the way you rest your hands on your head and the way in which you look at her will all tell her something that you would rather keep a secret.
Is your body language killing
your dating potential?
Unless you are a dating guru
or Brad Pitt, it most probably is.
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— Dr. Cary (@AskDrCary) June 29, 2012