Dear Dr. Cary,
I want to get flogged My boyfriend and I are in college and doing the long-distance thing until June 2013. Over the years, he’s granted me increasing amounts of freedom to be intimate with women. (I’m female) and I date women while we’re apart – but I still don’t have full autonomy. It’s much better than it used to be, but lately another one of my “needs” has been eating at me: my masochism. He’s repeatedly refused me permission to let someone lay into me with a flogger.
That’s all I ask!
I don’t even want to have anything sexual with the person who flogs me! I just want them to beat me! And this might be relevant: He has the freedom to do whatever he wishes but God only knows why he never indulges in anything more than the odd vanilla woman here and there. Also, I’m not allowed to attend fetish clubs because he knows I’ll make bad choices if I do (I’ll play!), but the burner and fetish scenes are converging here in Los Angeles and I’m going to get in trouble soon!
Los Angeles, CA
Honey you are so screwed up! Both of you appear to be very immature to be text fucking and expect each to be faithful until 2013. Figure out who you are first and then go after whichever sexual preference you prefer. Get over each other and move on. I personally think you need to be flogged into some degree of sensibility.
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