Dear Dr. Cary,
I envy transexuals and wear women’s panties. I am a 40 year old male, and I wear womens panties quite often. My wife knows about it. In fact, occasionally she will buy me a pair. But there is more to it. See, I like to look at Transexuals (M to F) a lot. I like to see them dressed in panties as well as in sexual situations. Part of me gets excited when I see that stuff, and part of me feels guilty.
In some ways I also feel that Transexuals are lucky as well as Brave. They get to live their lives on their terms, dress the way they like to, and they seem to be generally happy. I guess what I am trying to say is that they live their lives on the outside the way I feel on the inside. I love my wife dearly, but some times I wish I could spend sometime in their shoes. What does this mean? Is my sexuality in question?
Dear Majorly Confused,
Duh, what do you think? Forget about spending time in their shoes. What you’re really trying to say is that you want to spend time in their panties!
When did this behavior begin? Was it after you were married or have you always she been attracted to this lifestyle.
I am a bit stumped that your wife goes along with this, although I suppose you’re lucky that she accepts your sexuality. Make sure she buys you the sexy panties and not those Wal-Mart Bubo ones.
What is preventing you from coming out? Your job, social standing or just plain fear? If you did come out would your wife go along with you or would you be out on your ass? Yes, your sexuality is in question and in fact it’s not even a question. Accept who you are and how you want to live your life because we only have one kick at the cat (pussy) and you better to be happy with who you are rather than regret it. Keep me informed.
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