How that first second of meeting someone new can affect a date.
That first second of meeting someone new is the most challenging and important time there is in first meeting a person. The reason this is true is because starting with that first second they will begin forming an opinion of you and that opinion is going to go in either a positive direction or a negative one, this is both good news and bad news.
The good news is that when you learn what to do to make a good first impression you will dramatically increase the odds of success. However, the bad new is that even if it starts off being positive at first, it can turn bad quickly and be almost impossible to recover from, unless you learn how to prepare yourself for long-term dating success.
Most men fail time and time again at dating mainly because they under estimate the importance of that first second of meeting someone new and as a result of this lack of knowledge and understanding, they make a bad first impression and end up never getting a second chance.
Many men have a bad habit of talking too much about their past conquests or their most favorite relationship. Or they talk about themselves instead of listening to ultimately what you r date is talking about. Most women like good listeners and most men don’t know when to shut the fuck up.
Most women have a good idea of what type of man can capture their attention or hold their interest long enough for them to want to continue seeing them. Like wise they also know what kind of man is an immediate turn off to them and this is why it is very important to learn more about what women like in a man and what they do not like.
In my experience most women – whether shallow or with great depth are attracted to a man who is well-groomed (Ie: showered after the romp in the hay last night), well dressed – and – women love mens shoes! Shoes are an aphrodisiac to women. Dress appropriate. If you have a good physique – flaunt it in a bad boy way. Most women desire a bad boy in bed.
For example, how important is what you wear, to her ? Is she going to be turned off if you did not shave that day ? Is she looking for someone that is a fancy dresser ? Is it important that you are friendly and out going ? or would she be more attracted to a confident, goal oriented type of guy ?
These are just a few of the things that should be considered so that you can put the odds in your favor during that first second of meeting someone new. After all, the goal of going through the trouble and effort of meeting someone new is to be able to connect with them. (Or ultimately get laid or at least a good blowjob of course)! You can refer to my video on YouTube about How to give a good blowjob.
Because women have soo many men trying to get their attention, they do not want to spend time getting to know a guy if he does not already know how to make a good first impression. When she does get a good first impression, that can help her overlook any other minor faults that she may find in you.
The true is that we all have are problems and short comings (don’t talk about your four inch dick – she’ll find that out on the second date) so we need to do everything that we can to put our best foot forward. This way we can increase are chances of making a good and lasting connection.
Make sure that you come across confident. Not cocky but confident and self assured. Most women like that stronger male image and I believe it’s important that you let her know from the get-go that what she sees – is what she gets. (Otherwise fuck her)!
If you think the time or situation is appropriate you can throw in a couple of sexual innuendos. You can tell by how she responds to you whether or not you’re able to do that with her.
When you know what it takes to make a good first impression in that first second of meeting someone new, then you will be able to confidently approach women and improve your dating success.
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How that First Second Of Meeting Someone New Can Affect A Date