For the typical, ordinary single guy, meeting new women can be a hazardous operation. These days, there are so many new obstacles to hooking up with potential females that the old ones tend to be forgotten – but they are still the hardest to overcome.
Many Men have difficulty with classic areas of relationships
and these don’t really go away
you have to learn to deal with them
and to grow as a person.
THESE are the
5 Hardest Things About Meeting New Women
5 Hardest Things About Meeting New Women — askdrcary.com/5-hardest-thin…
— Dr. Cary (@AskDrCary) June 9, 2012
1. A Case Of The Nerves
2 Self-Consciousness Strikes Again
People are extremely image-aware in these modern times. It seems that we expect everyone to be above average and look like a fashion model. Typical characteristics of the self-conscious man are that you think your hair is all wrong, that your skin isn’t as tan and healthy as it should be, that you should work out more to look hunkier, that you’re too fat or too skinny, that your teeth aren’t white enough, and so on.
When you meet a new woman and all you can think about is yourself, you’re going to have a hard time getting through to her. Forget about yourself – (unless you haven’t showered for the last week). Focus on meeting her eyes straight on without looking elsewhere then give her that complete once-over with that self-assured manner.
3 Saying The Wrong Thing
What women like in men are those who are good with words, and can stay focused on what’s happening when the talk is flowing. And that takes practice. Tell her what she sees is what she gets. This will show her self-confidence. Hopefully she likes who you are. If she doesn’t like what she sees – Oh well – there’s a 1000 other women out there who will. Just let her know it’s okay if she doesn’t like what she sees. what she sees is what she gets. No game playin
4 Doing The Wrong Thing
Actions speak louder than words, so they say, and this applies multiplied by a hundred when you’re a man meeting new women. Your body language can speak volumes about you that may be the wrong message, so you need to learn how you are coming off non-verbally. And you can make the wrong gesture at the wrong time, like buying and presenting a gift or asking for a date before you’ve gotten to the right time.
Your whole body language with a comfortable swagger will come off as a man who is comfortable in his own skin. You don’t want to come off as a little dog begging for scraps at the table. You want her to see you as a mountain of strength.
5 Fear Of Rejection
So now that you know the 5 Hardest Things About Meeting New Women
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